Susan AndersonHeartache Is the Itch You Can’t ScratchSomeone wrote to me saying that it feels as if she will never get over “him”. She has been “hurting” for over ten years — and she judges…Sep 4Sep 4
Susan AndersonWhy Does Guilt Love to Turn the Tables?Dear Susan, my boyfriend treats me badly. He makes promises but doesn’t show up. Then he showers me with passion, only to go online and…Aug 4Aug 4
Susan AndersonAre You Alone, Stuck in a Pattern, and Can’t Get Out?Are you and anyone you know caught up in cycles of abandonment? Why do people keep repeating the same patterns over and over? What can they…Jul 7Jul 7
Susan AndersonAbandonment and Outer ChildAbandonment has everything to do with Outer Child patterns — how they developed and how to overcome them.May 15May 15
Susan AndersonAm I still attracted to the unavailable?Someone wrote to me describing a very common dilemma: You finally realize that you’ve always been attracted to the wrong type of people…May 5May 5
Susan Anderson45 Characteristics of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder of AbandonmentPTSD of Abandonment is the underlying traumatic source of Complex PTSD (C-PTSD).Apr 181Apr 181
Susan AndersonDo You Prefer Immediate Gratification to Accomplishment?You mean I have to make a choice? Yes, usually.Apr 9Apr 9
Susan AndersonIs your partner still on the prowl? — healing abandonment with Susan AndersonYou’re in a committed relationship. Or so you thought. But do you get the feeling that one of you is hedging your bets? Does your mate…Aug 10, 2023Aug 10, 2023
Susan AndersonPart II: Trying to Get Over Someone — healing abandonment with Susan AndersonGetting over someone: The task can be so arduous that it needs to become an ongoing project. And you can’t expect results right away. You…Jul 3, 2023Jul 3, 2023
Susan AndersonHow Social Media Triggers Abandonment — healing abandonment with Susan AndersonI think we’re more vulnerable than we used to be, especially young people whose self image is just forming and are impressionable by what…Jun 23, 2023Jun 23, 2023