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Susan Anderson

Susan Anderson

Heartache Is the Itch You Can’t Scratch

Someone wrote to me saying that it feels as if she will never get over “him”. She has been “hurting” for over ten years — and she judges…

Sep 4

Heartache Is the Itch You Can’t Scratch

Sep 4

Susan Anderson

Why Does Guilt Love to Turn the Tables?

Dear Susan, my boyfriend treats me badly. He makes promises but doesn’t show up. Then he showers me with passion, only to go online and…

Aug 4

Why Does Guilt Love to Turn the Tables?

Aug 4

Susan Anderson

Are You Alone, Stuck in a Pattern, and Can’t Get Out?

Are you and anyone you know caught up in cycles of abandonment? Why do people keep repeating the same patterns over and over? What can they…

Jul 7

Are You Alone, Stuck in a Pattern, and Can’t Get Out?

Jul 7

Susan Anderson

Abandonment and Outer Child

Abandonment has everything to do with Outer Child patterns — how they developed and how to overcome them.

May 15

Abandonment and Outer Child

May 15

Susan Anderson

Am I still attracted to the unavailable?

Someone wrote to me describing a very common dilemma: You finally realize that you’ve always been attracted to the wrong type of people…

May 5

Am I still attracted to the unavailable?

May 5

Susan Anderson

45 Characteristics of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder of Abandonment

PTSD of Abandonment is the underlying traumatic source of Complex PTSD (C-PTSD).

Apr 18

45 Characteristics of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder of Abandonment

Apr 18

Susan Anderson

Do You Prefer Immediate Gratification to Accomplishment?

You mean I have to make a choice? Yes, usually.

Apr 9

Do You Prefer Immediate Gratification to Accomplishment?

Apr 9

Susan Anderson

Is your partner still on the prowl? — healing abandonment with Susan Anderson

You’re in a committed relationship. Or so you thought. But do you get the feeling that one of you is hedging your bets? Does your mate…

Aug 10, 2023

Is your partner still on the prowl? — healing abandonment with Susan Anderson

Aug 10, 2023

Susan Anderson

Part II: Trying to Get Over Someone — healing abandonment with Susan Anderson

Getting over someone: The task can be so arduous that it needs to become an ongoing project. And you can’t expect results right away. You…

Jul 3, 2023

Part II: Trying to Get Over Someone — healing abandonment with Susan Anderson

Jul 3, 2023

Susan Anderson

How Social Media Triggers Abandonment — healing abandonment with Susan Anderson

I think we’re more vulnerable than we used to be, especially young people whose self image is just forming and are impressionable by what…

Jun 23, 2023

How Social Media Triggers Abandonment — healing abandonment with Susan Anderson

Jun 23, 2023

Susan Anderson

Susan Anderson

Psychotherapist, Author, Abandonment Expert w/ 30+ years of clinical experience & dedicated research of #abandonment victims. Contact me: abandonment@erols.com.

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